One of my friends told me a lovely story of a
deer. A deer with its beautiful horns and shining skin is very fond of its
personality. A deer though feels that its legs are not as beautiful as its
horns and feels little sad about it. When a tiger comes hunting , those very
legs save the deer from getting hunted and the horns are a liability as the
deer runs a huge risk of horns getting entangled in bushes while running.
This story highlighted a fact that sometimes it’s the non-glamorous stuff that
can be a real savior.
When it comes to ideation or creativity, words
like “Discipline” and “process” look non-glamorous. I have heard many talking
about creativity as a free-flowing state of mind which cannot be hampered by
pre-defined rules. It always sounded ok to me till I had a very interesting
experience
I was conducting an offsite for a leadership
team recently. Part of the offsite was regular business reviews and I was
invited as an observer for that part . One of the non-negotiable rules I set up
for any meeting / discussion that I am part of is “safe learning / sharing zone”
where participants agree that there is no punishment for speaking the
uncomfortable facts / incidents. The rules of how we would interact during the
offsite were set up right in the beginning.
During the review presentations, one of the Business Unit Heads made a very
simple statement,” I shouldn’t have accepted the target from the board when
deep down I had concerns about the feasibility etc”. I could see the Chairman of
the company sitting in the room getting very uncomfortable when this happened.
He simply asked” Don’t you realize that you misled the board?” I could sense
the situation getting very tense and suddenly the tension in the room was so
thick that you could have cut it with a knife 😊 Intuitively I jumped in and told the audience that it takes raw guts to
stand there and I had never seen such brilliant honesty in admitting the
shortfall in such a simple manner. The mood changed and everyone clapped for the
gentleman who was presenting. With this unexpected response, the presenter had
tears in his eyes.
However, the real magic happened afterwards. The
atmosphere in the room became much lighter and suddenly it was “OK” to have
dialogue about one’s failure / vulnerability. People became comfortable with
their own vulnerabilities and ideas started flowing freely. The Chairman of the
company later on told me that he had never seen his team contributing so much.
I politely told him that they would always do this if they felt safer in the
environment.
I think as a facilitators/ coaches we all have
responsibility to stick to our process and discipline that we have laid down
with the target audience. No amount of provocation and especially senior
leadership intervention should sway us away from the discipline and pose a
threat to safety. Many a times we allow some senior leaders to hijack the
agenda when they break the rules. It is primary job of a facilitator and a
coach to ensure that he / she is guardian of the process. This discipline on
part of the facilitator / coach creates safety in which creativity naturally
blooms 😊
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